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Kamis, 06 Maret 2014

Comparison between western & my town(Lamongan)



COMPARISON BETWEEN WESTERN AND MY TOWN CULTURE

Family life
In western averange family size 2 parents, 2.4 children. Children are expensive, this is the main reason why family are so small. Family planning means that couples have children later in life about 28 years old. Usual times children have to back home, in bed, for 14 years old – 10pm, 16 years old – 12midnight, 18 years old – whenever as long as children tell parents where they are going and when they will be back. Most families have 2 cars. The important birthday are sweet 16, 18, 21, 30, 40, 50, 80, 100 years old.
In my town averange family size big, 2 parents, 2.6 children, sometimes gether with grand mother, grand father, son-daughter in law. Children are cheap, so that why family are so big . Family or couples to have children without planning, usual after married directly get a baby, it is more happy. Nothing especially times children have to back home, if a girl go out at the night, did not go back until 10pm, that is naughty girl, and there are many someone will talk about her. Most family have 1 motorcycle. Then nothing especially important birthday.

Fashion
In western fashion is popular for everyone, and that very important. Usual the girl wear Tshirt, short pants, sometimes the Tshirt so short and thin, then looked the navel hole.  The boy wear Tshirt, trousers. That is informal style. Formal style like wear gown for the girl, wear coat and necktie for the boy.
In my town fashion important too, but more polite style than in western. Usual the girl wear trousers, long Tshirt until cover the bottom, sometimes there is wear hijjab. The boy wear Tshirt like usual, wear trousers. Formal style, usually the girl  wear longdress, the boy wear blouse and trousers.

Food
Meat is main food in western, most of society of western eat meat everyday, and eat vegetarian, as like pitza, hamburger, hot dog and ect. Usually they ate without rice. Eat breakfast only eat some bread and drink milk. Then eat lunch and dinner with menu steak or pasta.
Rice is main food in my town, eat breakfast without rice as like as not eat. Rice is very important. The people seldom eat meat, often eat seafood. My town so near with sea, so easier to get seafood. The price not so expensive than meat.

Religion
Most of people in western non moeslim, christian and protestan. Every Sunday they go to church to pray. Then every year at 25 desember, they had christmas celebration. Gether with family, party, ready have christmas tree, change gift to each other.
Mostly moeslim society at my town. Everyday pray 5 times in one day. Then in One year have 2 celebration for moeslim, Idul fitri and idul adha. Idul fitri is mean that to forgiven with other moeslim. Idul adha is mean charity to other, or the other named celebrate who has made the pilgrimage to mecca.

Stereotypes
Western people are singleness, self trust, in a hurry, don’t care about family, don’t care about old people, materialisme.
Javaness people are togetherness, slowly but surely, care with family, polite with old people, generous to others.

Hijab I'm in Love









Two verses of the Holy Quran succinctly and candidly deal with the basic concept of veil in Islam.  First; in Sura An-Nur (The light) the Quran says: “And tell the believing women to lower their gazes and be modest, and to display of their adornments only that which is apparent, and to draw their veils over their bosoms.”(24:31)
In this verse it is clearly mentioned that sex parts must not be exposed and must be covered.  “Adornment which is apparent” alludes to the common body parts between male and female sexes.  The face, hands and feet are common parts and are exposed without any indecency or immodesty.  Second; The other verse of the Holy Quran is in Sura Al-Ahzab (The confederates).  The Quran says: “O; Prophet! Tell thy wives and thy daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks close round them (when they go outside).  That will be better, that so they may be recognized and not molested”. (33:59).  The ancient Arab history reveals the fact that the immodest and immoral ladies used to expose their bodies and walk in market without veil.  They were purchasable commodities.  They did not wear hijab or scarf.  They were improperly dressed.  The corrupt people could easily decipher and unravel about their character or profession.  They were prostitutes.  Hence the Quran announced that pious ladies must be properly and modestly dressed so that when they go out of their houses people should recognize them as domestic chaste, pure and pious ladies and they should not be teased or chased.  From these two above-mentioned Quranic verses it is clear that God ordains to cover the bodies and strictly rejects and condemns nudity and obscenity.

Kamis, 27 Februari 2014

I Love Hijab


The Hijab today is a hot topic in Islamic countries. Hijab is to veil, to cover, or to screen. The hijab, one of the most prominent symbols of Islam, is apparently undergoing a modernization. Islam is known as a religion concerned with community cohesion and moral boundaries, and therefore the hijab is a way of ensuring that the moral boundaries between unrelated men and women are respected.  Today there are many styles of hijab, one of many designers leading the way in this modest, yet trendy Islamic style of dress .